With 2020 being the year of social distancing due to Corona Virus, we can no
longer take a face to face negotiation for granted. We must adapt to
negotiating via e-mail, video conferencing or over the phone. This is of course
all possible and with the right preparation we can be as successful.
A skilled negotiator understands the most important attributes
to a successful outcome. These are body language, tone of voice and reactions
to their proposals by the other party. A skilled negotiator can read the other
party through these attributes which assist in determining
the next move. This is of course limited during a negotiation via video conference.
Heightened Awareness
While you will never be able to look the other party in the eye and vice versa, you can see yourself. This
creates more awareness to oneself but it can also be a distraction if you are too
focused on your own facial expressions. A skilled negotiator wants the other party
to see what they want them to see and is therefore conscious
competent with their facial expressions and language. However make sure you are not too focused on yourself, watch them.
Technical difficulties
Make sure you can see and hear the other party clearly. If
there are technical difficulties on their side, ask to get them fixed first or
suggest postponing the meeting. If you have technical difficulties do the same.
Technical difficulties are a distraction as they can interrupt the flow of the meeting
and can take you off track.
Ask
Prepare a list of questions that you are going to ask. Make
sure you are asking open questions. Watch their facial expressions carefully
when asking the questions.
Silence
Use the power of silence to make the other party talk. Since
it is more difficult to read the other party’s body language and facial
expressions, use extended periods of silence to your advantage. Silence is
uncomfortable and even more so on video conferencing and if the other party is
not comfortable with silence then they will talk and give out vital information
that could be useful to you.
Agenda
While it is always advisable to have an agenda that both
parties have agreed to it is even more important when negotiating via video conference.
It keeps the negotiation on track and does not allow for distractions.
Engagement
Use screen share or document share to make your proposals
more visual this engages the other side and gives it a ‘real’ touch.
Close
Make sure you finish with an outcome; with a deal. Get them to
agree there and then and follow this up with an email.
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